When a community gets larger in number, you have to learn to guard your lips because generally, the mouth works way faster than the brain. Most people can't keep a secret. But I've notice some lines that you ought to use when you want the gossipmongers to spread news. Here are my top threes! 1. "Don't tell this to anyone!" 2. "You're the only one who know about this" 3. "It's a top secret..." Please, use it to your advantage.