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INFP AND SPARTANS

One of those enlightening coffee talk with Ze. Some of his wise words.

ZeWhen we find the courage to grab life by the horns , we're in it too deep. We need to take control of our lives

Ze But then, we do get to choose our ideals. Our ideals can change. If we let it.

Ze Psychology is not for the fainthearted.

Ze  Dealing with the mentally unstable, insane, volatile, and ill... it takes incredible strength, mentally, you have to be like... 300 Spartans. Just be THAT strong.

Ze The emotions... once it grabs a lot of your attention.... it doesn't let loose easily. I practice emotional control. Control the chemical equilibrium in your brain.

Ze In real life, you have to learn to be tough because reality.. is well... real. You don't have to give up idealism entirely. Only the portions that conflict directly with reality. You can keep the ideals that give you a survival advantage. So it is important to choose ideals wisely.

Ze Anchor your ideals to the real world and it may someday influence real world dynamics

Comments

Julie said…
nn: anchor your ideals to the real world and it may someday influence real world dynamics (this is an awesome quote)...deep stuff, but good stuff!
Anonymous said…
more quotes.... for inspiration or for wisdom

what untold fate awaits, the diverging destines of sixteen peculiar molds of clay

The future may very well depend on what sense you can make of the past

Some challenges test the limits of human resilience

without adversity in life... would we learn to cherish its rewards?

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